Quiet Repose
This tranquil columbarium, where my parents' ashes are lovingly interred, has become a haven of peace for me. Among the solemn statues and swaying palms, I always find solace—a quiet reminder of their presence and the enduring bonds of love and memory. There’s something strangely comforting being here—the quiet, the stillness, the sense of time pausing. It can feel like a place of quiet repose, where memories rest gently and love lingers in the silence.
The Seventh Step: A Fall, A Burden, and a Message for Us All
Not far from the columbarium, I found myself lingering in an unlikely spot—a quiet corner of the church carpark. It’s not where you’d expect to stop and reflect. But along the surrounding walls stood the outdoor Stations of the Cross, beautifully sculpted and deeply moving. Each one felt like a silent storyteller, etched in solemn relief. Station VII, in particular, held me still.
Jesus Falls the Second Time.
The Roman numeral VII, in striking gold, sits atop a pale, weathered tableau. Jesus, exhausted under the crushing weight of the cross, has collapsed again. Around Him, the world buzzes — soldiers, citizens, bystanders — each face frozen in time, each expression a question or an answer in itself.
This moment, this second fall, holds more than just the image of physical exhaustion. It speaks to the moments in our own lives when we fall — not just once, but again. When getting back up feels heavier than the burden we’re carrying. And yet, the journey continues.
I stood there in the shade of the church wall, cars passing by just a few steps away, and felt the strange collision of the sacred and the everyday. It reminded me that our faith isn’t confined to Sunday rituals or quiet chapels. Sometimes it’s written in plaster on a wall beside a carpark, whispering to us when we least expect it.
Because falling — even more than once — doesn’t mean we’ve failed. It means we are human. And like Christ, we rise again, not because we have to be strong all the time, but because grace meets us exactly where we fall.
DINNER - South Indian banana leaf rice
FROM THE TRAVEL ARCHIVES
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The view from your airbnb looks beautiful! And I want to try those exotic food.
ReplyDeleteA beautifully heartfelt reflection, your words gently reveal how memory, faith, and grace intertwine—reminding us through Station VII that even in our repeated falls, we are met with the quiet strength to rise again.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautifully woven journey of image and reflection, Veronica. You’ve woven image and reflection with rare sensitivity. Your words about the stillness of the columbarium and Station VII left a lump in my throat — a gentle meditation on presence, falling, and hope. π
ReplyDeleteWhat great photos these are.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to see photos of Volendam a place in my country, it is always busy there, that can also be seen in your photos.
Also nice the video with music of the Cats, very recognizable for me.
Really nice the AI mice.
Greetings Irma
Such an intense post, full of memories and feelings.
ReplyDeleteHappy May, Veronica!
That view from your Airbnb is incredible!
ReplyDeleteCe vacanta superba! Imi place pozitivitatea din fiecare postare a ta, Veronica draga.
ReplyDeleteAsa sa iti fie toate vacantele!
Trimit ganduri bune si imbratisari ππ€
I, too, find peace in visiting my parents' graves -- the quiet, the calm. And what a wonderful collection of photos! And thank you for the sweet surprise of writing about Volendam. I was there in 2018 and found it to be so lovely. Seeing the photos was a nice reminder and thanks for posting the video link. I'll share that with Rick, too. Have a wonderful week.
ReplyDeleteSuch a great view! I'd like to taste that typical food.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing the video.
Such a marvelous experience of meeting the miraculous in the mundane, Veronica, seeing this particular Station of the Cross in a church car park. Yes, we do fall and fail again and again, but we can always take comfort in knowing that Jesus is there to help us get back on our feet. As always, your photos are wonderful, too!
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice shots, thanks for your sharing
ReplyDeleteGreat pictures. Love seeing food that I've never tried before.
ReplyDeleteGreat mixture of interesting photos as always Veronica. The pictures and your musings on the Columbarium and finding peace among memories had a special meaning to me right now. Thank you for that and for your kind comments on my post. We're getting back to (new) normal and finding smiles again -- I plan to be back to blogging soon.
ReplyDeleteThe table setting with South Indian banana leaf rice looks magnificent.
ReplyDeleteI wish you a wonderful month of May.
A lovely collection of images. Looks like it was a nice trip.
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ReplyDeleteThat was really interesting and such a pretty place. The food looks fabulous!
ReplyDeleteUy que lindas fotos. Me dio ganas de la comida. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteThe view is wonderful. All the food looks very tasty. As always I love too see the mices you show here on your blog.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice weekend, Veronica!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about Christ falling twice. Deep and profound. I am grateful for them.
ReplyDeleteDear Veronica :)
ReplyDeleteIn loving memory my daughter and i often visit the place where my husbands ashes were scattered in the forest that he loved, and made known to us where he wished his resting place to be, I can completely relate to that sense of peace you feel on visiting where your parents where lovingly interred . The Tableau is beautiful, and a reminder that faith can be felt any time anywhere
I enjoyed the video, and the photos of Volendam,. what a charming place it is.
I can't travel now, but I certainly missed out on not visiting Holland. Thank you for sharing your lovely photos and sentiments. The mice are fun and seasoned travelers. :)
All the best
Sonjia.
All the best
WunderschΓΆn diese Aussicht liebe Veronica, das sieht schon fast ein bisschen mystisch aus. So ein besonderer Ort, die Stille die Du beschreibst finde ich sehr friedlich. Ich glaube Dir dass Du dort Kraft und Ruhe findest. Vielen Dank fΓΌr die schΓΆnen Fotos von Volendam. Das gefΓ€llt mir.
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Beautiful photos. I enjoyed the Volendam video. What an amazing view you had from your Airbnb!
ReplyDeleteYour world is so much different than mine! I maybe get to a large city once a year, and when I say large I am talking maybe under a couple hundred thousand people, really not that large at all. Some of that food looked really spicy!
ReplyDeleteDear Veronica, you've shared some very fitting thoughts on Station VII of the Cross. I'm not religious like you, but for me, too, the idea that falling doesn't mean you've fallen forever, but rather that you can pick yourself up and keep going is important.
ReplyDeleteYour pictures of Volendam are very beautiful! I remember that we were in Volendam a little over 25 years ago—mainly because we couldn't find affordable accommodation in Amsterdam—but I apparently didn't see this beautiful part of town. It's a shame, your pictures of it (including the ones with the mice π) are great. And your food photos are VERY tempting! π
All the best, Traude
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thanks for sharing, have a nice evening
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful it is to see all these beautiful images. Thank you for a super post. It has been lovely catching up after my blog break with my relatives. So nice to be visiting again.
ReplyDeleteEverything is spectacular, space and food!
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https://universeofmyheart.blogspot.com/2025/05/tc2025-15-aprilie-frumusetea-dansului.html,
because you were my source of inspiration!
Hugs and a fine week, dear Veronica!❤️π
Dutch-style houses make my mind flies to Netherland....
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing interesting video
Such lovely and special words about falling and rising again. We are just meant to dust ourselves off and tread on, and He gives us the strength to do just that. I'm so glad you had a moment of peace and reflection in this quiet corner of the church. I had a friend who always walked through the Stations of the Cross at our church. That spread looks so delicious. And that view is something else! - so many lush trees in the distance.
ReplyDeleteWishing you wonderful May days. Thank you for your beautiful words today.
~Sheri
Hello!
ReplyDeleteI too often visit the remains of my departed loved ones, I feel exactly like you!
Getting up and falling down again and getting back up again is difficult, very difficult! But with God's grace we get back on our feet! A beautiful teaching!
Another trip, now to the Netherlands, I love it! Beautiful photos of AI!
Hugs
Hello, first I have to say that little mouse running across the top of your blog is precious, and your post what lovely photos and all that incredible food! Very nice and super AirB&B thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate you highlighting the station of the cross where Jesus falls for the second time. I agree that it's human to fall multiple times, and I like your words about rising again because grace meets us exactly where we fall.
ReplyDeleteSo many beautiful pictures in this post, and what an awesome view from your AirB&B. Was that also in Volendam?
ReplyDeleteYour reflections on Station VII really touched me, as did those about the peacefulness you feel in the columbarium.
A fascinating gallimaufry indeed! Loved the mix of photos and your thoughtful writing.
ReplyDeleteHello Veronica, I always enjoy your travel photos. You have been to so many beautiful and wonderful places. The food images are amazing too. Cute images of the mice in Volendam. Thank you for linking up and sharing your critter post. Take care, have a great week ahead. PS, thank you for leaving me a comment.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful reflection on both places and moments that hold such deep meaning. The columbarium and the Stations of the Cross, especially the fall of Jesus, are such poignant reminders of the burden and grace we experience in our own lives. Your words about falling, rising again, and finding solace in unexpected places resonate deeply. I also loved your travel memory of Volendam—how lovely to have music tied so beautifully to a place. I just posted a new blog about Body Confident You: Body Confident Kid, and would be honored if you could visit and share your thoughts: https://www.melodyjacob.com/2025/05/body-confident-you-body-confident-kid-book-review.html. Wishing you many more moments of reflection and peace.
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful how a place of rest for your parents can also be a sanctuary for you. And the unexpected encounter with the Stations of the Cross in the carpark is a powerful reminder that moments of reflection and faith can find us in the most ordinary settings.
ReplyDeleteDo have a wonderful week.
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and poignant reflection. The peace and solace you find in the columbarium is a powerful reminder of the deep connections we maintain with those we’ve lost. I could feel the quiet and reverence in your words, especially in how you described the presence of your parents through their resting place. The imagery of the Stations of the Cross, particularly the second fall of Jesus, resonates deeply—it’s a reflection of our own struggles, the weight we sometimes carry, and the grace that allows us to rise again. Your writing beautifully captures the sacred in the mundane, reminding us that our journey is both sacred and human.
ReplyDeleteAlso, that South Indian banana leaf rice dinner sounds delicious and so inviting! It’s amazing how food can also offer a sense of comfort and belonging.
I recently wrote a blog post on body confidence, especially how we can foster a positive relationship with our bodies. If you’d like to check it out, here’s the link: https://www.melodyjacob.com/2025/05/body-confident-you-body-confident-kid-book-review.html
Your reflections on Station VII and the columbarium are deeply moving. They beautifully capture the intertwining of memory, faith, and grace. Thank you for sharing such poignant moments.
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Wonderful variety of photos and I enjoy your reflections with the Station of the Cross. We can get those reflections anywhere as long as we keep our eyes open. Have a fantastic week.
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I loved your reflection about grace. That even if we fall, Jesus is there to meet us and to help us get back up again!
ReplyDeleteYour reflections on Station VII and the columbarium are deeply moving. They beautifully capture the intertwining of memory, faith, and grace. Thank you for sharing such poignant moments.
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The food looks amazing.. what a spread. Love traveling with you.
ReplyDeleteI am glad you found your time at the columbarium peaceful. Volendam sounds like an interesting place.
ReplyDeleteHello Veronica,
ReplyDeleteWonderful pictures.
Delicious food and great that view in your second picture.
Haven street looks vey cozy..hihi..!!
Many greetings,
Marco
A great collection of experiences and thoughts - your food always makes me want to eat!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful redflections on the passage of life and faith, Veronica. I want my ashes scatted amongst nature when the time comes--maybe by a river or on a mountain top. I've always wanyted to visit the Netherlands in spring!
ReplyDeleteMom is as happy as the adorable mice in the Netherlands. It is such a unique place. She has been there many times.
ReplyDeleteI Googled the Stations of the Cross. I found the images very poignant and beautiful. I assume I found the right place, Ipoh, Malaysia?
ReplyDeleteAll of your photos are beautiful, and I enjoyed seeing Volendam.
...dinner looks fabulous. I wish you a wonderful day, Veronica.
ReplyDeleteOh the food. Oh the food. I ate and ate and ate. Thank you for that.
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Have a fabulous Wordless Wednesday. ♥
Whenever I drop by, I want to shout, 'let's eat!'
ReplyDeleteSuch an interesting and varied post. I loved your words about the peace at the columbarium. I find cemeteries to be tranquil and resting.
ReplyDeleteSo lucky to travel to the Netherlands. Your photos captured it so lovely, I would love to travel here one day.
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