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Thursday, July 30, 2026

The Legend of the 99 Steps


On Bled Island, a wedding tradition says the groom must carry his bride up all 99 stone steps to the Church of the Assumption. He does it in silence, without putting her down, as a symbol of strength, devotion, and love. 
If he succeeds, their marriage will be blessed with happiness and harmony.

Question 

What if the groom can’t make it all the way up the 99 steps? Wouldn’t that feel ominous — as if the marriage were doomed before it even begins?

I have to admit, I was already huffing and panting about a quarter of the way up those steps—and I wasn't even carrying anyone! That certainly gave me a new appreciation for the grooms who take on this tradition.


But legends are symbolic, not literal. The climb is meant to show devotion, not predict destiny. Even if the steps prove too steep, love isn’t measured in stone stairways — it’s measured in patience, laughter, and the willingness to keep climbing together in life.

48 comments:

  1. The Groom need to have a good back! 😄

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  2. Oooh - what a gorgeous picture!
    But, 99 steps is a lot, especially carrying your bride.
    I enjoyed this, thanks for sharing.

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  3. I'm sorry for the groom :)
    But I love the legend :)
    Anna

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  4. I think they should do it symbolically and start at step 90!

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  5. I love the picture of the mices, Veronica! :)

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  6. wow carrying someone up that many steps would be hard.

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  7. Oh my! That is quite a difficult feat. I remember laughing just having my husband trying to carry me over the threshold. It doesn't help that wedding dresses and their skirts/beads/etc. weigh a good amount too!

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  8. What a challenge for sure. Beautiful thought but man... I would feel bad if my husband had to try to carry me. Well, now after almost 30 years he would not make it. HAHA! My size done change quite a lot. HAHAH.
    How interesting and neat though!!!!!

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  9. ...after 58 years I couldn't do this.

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  10. It's a great location. Great picture. I would not want to attempt it, however.

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  11. That is a lot of steps!-Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

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  12. Oh, what a feat, Veronica! True love always wins. Blessings!

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  13. 99 steps is quite something The marriage could start badly when he drops her haha but I like the intention and loved the video

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  14. The grooms must be healthy and strong to carry the bride up this long staircase, while the bride must be small and slender.

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  15. I see this a creating an incentive for the groom to try to pressure the bride into losing weight, thus fueling marital strife.

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  16. Hello Veronica,
    What a beautiful video, impressive of the groom that he did it, it is not just something you can do easily.
    I wish you a wonderful weekend.
    All the best, Irma

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  17. I love this! Though I don't think my husband would be able to do this....

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  18. Oh my goodness, he certainly did a great job carrying his bride all the way and never faltered, those steps must not be slippery. Love your AI too.

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  19. I loved this legend so great, thanks for your sharing

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  20. Such a sweet message! I’ll stick to climbing life's steps together, because I would fail the 99-step physical in a heartbeat!

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  21. aww... wonderful tradition.....
    Thank you for sharing.

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  22. I think there should be a new tradition and the bride and groom should hold hands walking up the steps together in perfect harmony! If a couple chooses the old way, that's okay too!

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  23. I wouldn't even have made a couple steps.
    And that's all I have to say on that.

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  24. Look at those cute little feet on the mouse. It’s a different story, though, if the bride is bigger than the groom XD

    Best regards, and I invite you to take a look at the portraits I create.

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  25. Carrying the bride up ninety-nine steps is a tough task. The groom needs to train beforehand—or else the custom isn't taken too seriously; it’s the intention that counts.

    Have a nice weekend

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  26. I am very impressed that anyone can do this.

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  27. Slovenia is a neighboring country. I was near Bled at the Lesce airport once. I didn't make it to the lake.

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  28. Que linda lenda, mas é difícila carregar por 99 degraus,rs...Adorei ver! beijos, lindo fim de semana e feliz agosto! chica

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  29. Boa tarde minha querida amiga Veronica. Acho que o noivo, precisa dr muita força. Acho difícil ele, cumprir essa tarefa. Uma excelente tarde de sábado, para você e todos os seus familiares na Malásia, um excelente mês de agosto, bom final de semana e um grande abraço do seu amigo carioca.

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  30. That guy seemed to do it with ease!

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  31. That would be tough! Was this the island in Lake Bled in Slovenia? We meant to go there at the end of our Croatia trip, but the forecast was 14C and raining, so we stayed on a Croatian island instead, which was much warmer!

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  32. Wonderful legend and photos ~ very creative post ~ Hugs ^_^

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  33. Sounds like you better be marrying a strong man. What if the bride is heavy or the groom weak?

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  34. Well done that groom. I counted all 99 steps as he climbed them. The answer is to choose a light bride!

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  35. Lo sposo deve essere super allenato.
    L' uomo del video lo fa con tanta facilità che sembra una passeggiata... Eppure 99 gradini sono una gran bella fatica

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  36. That's a lot of steps. The mice are so cute.

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  37. All I can think is the groom would have to train like an Olympian to carry his bride up all those steps. A very interesting tradition. Adore your mice bride and groom and thanks for your pretty photo and the video. Happy August to you!

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  38. Great picture of the steps.
    I watched the video and can't believe how effortless that groom made it seem. If he could do it--and in the rain--I'm sure the little mice should be able to do it easy peasy, haha.

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  39. No conocía la leyenda. Ya volvi. Te mando un beso y gracias por tu cariño.

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  40. I'd never heard of this practice. It sounds romantic, but strenuous and dangerous too. Thanks for your kind words on my blog, and blessings!

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  41. Oh my! Incredible. I'd have remained a bachelor if I were to marry there.

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